Any healthy man gets excited many times faster than a woman. For most, a quick glance at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic type of perception of information from the outside. They have to touch everything, feel it physically in order to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner loves touch and is more turned on by it, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with an increased need for touch will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulation techniques with your hands and other parts of the body!
It is a mistaken belief that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love affection and don't mind prolonging the pleasure they receive to relax physically and psychologically. And there are no fewer erogenous spots on a strong torso than those of beautiful girls. For a quality love session, you will need knowledge of sensitive areas, so let's enrich our baggage of seduction techniques together. Today we will learn how to excite a man with our hands and how to push all the "red buttons"!
Sex spots on men, stroke them properly
Erogenous zones are those areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and influence. Their caresses help to increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only the general erogenous zones of men, but also the individual ones for each man individually, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man just goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if she is reading his innermost thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of the penis and scrotum. Most men enjoy having their hair brushed by women's hands. No less pleasant is tenderness like touching the back of your hand to your cheeks, eyebrows and chin. Stroke his hair with your fingers spread wide so the hair falls between them and run the ends over his face. You can complement the action with soft kisses on the earlobe. What moves me most is not the fact of the lips touching, but the warm breath, which is perceived very strongly.
Neck
This part of the body in men is ideal for awakening passion with the hands. The most sensitive area is the strip of skin from the earlobes to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingers up and down and follow it up with kisses. You can use tongue caresses if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth to the middle part is the catwalk. This is where the hot trips start, signaling that the lady will soon go lower and there will be a "bud". . . Gently walk over it with the tip of your palm or fingers. Most likely, your body will be covered in bumps. Repeat.
Back
On the back, to properly stimulate a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder area,
- 3-5 cm below the shoulder girdle,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "accumulators" of lust can be stroked with your fingers, your hair and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men get very upset by women's nipples touching their backs.
For many men, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If all is well with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely blatant challenge - stroke the sacred back (tail area) with your pussy. Just keep in mind that in a few seconds the guy will not be able to hold back his desires, so the seduction with secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
By the way, an immobilized blindfolded partner concentrates more on tactile stimuli and therefore experiences more acute sensations. Consider this idea!
Torso
On the front of the body, the most sensual places that respond immediately to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, leading to the peak of male majesty. Keep in mind that guys have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you shouldn't pull them with the same intensity. There are individuals for whom such motivations will be unpleasant, therefore, dear tigers and panthers, we purr and listen to the desires of our deluded object. Many people like it when a girl runs her palms over her chest and stomach while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the central part will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to the other. Hands, on the other hand, have quite sensitive spots.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner fold of the arm, is a place with increased sensitivity to light touches. More brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move from this point on the wrist with your fingers back and forth.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many guys react to touching her by associating it with stroking the penis.
- The inner side of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to gentle touches from hands, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Did you still think that a man's feet are not involved in arousal and are only needed for support during intercourse? You were very wrong! Feet, it turns out, are a real erogenous crater! Kneading the fingers, gently stroking the heels and feet put their owner in more than a high mood.
The hollow below the knee is another erogenous zone to stimulate a man with his hands. Caress, light touch, pressure turn on crazy kids.
The junction of the torso and thighs is full of nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this area on a man's body as highly erogenous. Stroking the hip bones with your fingers can make a man shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men will not let a woman into this area at gunpoint because they are embarrassed or afraid of creating an image of a person focused on their own kind. And nature created her very erotic! Stroking the anus out and in she turns to every male. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anus ring with your fingertips gets the man in the right mood. If you want, you can put your fingers in his ass and feel the most sensitive spots there with the maximum response to passionate appeals. We have already written how to do this in an article about how to convince your husband to have sex with a strap - read on.
Dick and scrotum
And the main dish is, of course, manhood! Stroking the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, fingering), masturbating the penis itself and touching the skin in the area between the anus and the genitals can lead to ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress a penis with your hands to excite a man
To properly stimulate a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that jerking up and down and rubbing the foreskin is enough for enchanting sensations. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle a penis and no less carefully than a woman's vagina.
Correct grip
There are several basic ways to grab a penis.
- The traditional choice is the fist grab, in which the movements can be metaphorical 'up and down' or can suggest turning in a spiral.
- We press the head from above with our thumb and the rest are below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK symbol) from the thumb and forefinger, connecting them and making a fist (see the photo below)
- If you first lubricate your hands with lube, it will be easy to excite a man. The fist in the reverse position (you should see the back of the hand and its thumb pointing towards the woman) should move as if crushing the penis.
Caresses with fingers and hands
To enhance the senses of a partner, a woman should take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. Using any penile capture technique, stimulating a man with warm hands, you can quickly achieve orgasm. But you should not overheat the scrotum. There is nothing good about it for men's health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman hits the shaft with the phalanges of her fingers. It is better to do this while imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with sweeping movements.
A man has a special feeling when his penis is caressed by two women's hands at the same time. We place the dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We go up and down slowly and smoothly, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, pull him differently: you don't need to go to the base, instead, make compression manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone is caressed - the head of the penis, and due to the fact that caresses are done indirectly, there is no risk of erasing it. Men with such structure come brilliantly from such techniques!
It is important not to forget to stroke the testicles. The impact of simple massage movements will not only bring excitement, but also bring health: you can avoid problems with potency in adulthood by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them slightly to the side or down (slightly! this is not a wrist dilator! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in a circular motion and lightly touch the testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which should be drawn along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add bitterness and enhance the effect of the whole process.
Since the man is very excited, you can proceed to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl must rub her lips on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the suggested techniques with a high-quality pipe will help surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules on how to properly excite a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine the body of the centimeter and watch its reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We've told you how to get a man ready for sex and get him as excited as possible, but you want to create a signature trait to get him completely and irrevocably hooked. Let's try to outrun potential opponents and find that anchor to drug him into!
- Always moisturize your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Gliding turns men on.
- Apply pressure, stroking, light pinching to the muscles and be sure to pause for a few seconds. This inflames passions greatly.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and work your way down. You don't have to go straight to the genitals.
- When moving to the perineum, play with clothes or a towel stretched out after showering to create even more stimulation. Put your hands in your unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage and whisper in his ear how much it turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and order him what to do next. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Match the strokes together. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy, when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of pleasure must wash over him!
- Use your chest. You can stroke the penis with two palms and rest the head on the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main tip is to always use the difficult Thai technique. When you get to the main point, choose another very sensitive area and stroke it at the same time. This could be a member-anus, a member-lower back, a member-butt, etc. You yourself will notice what a man responds to the most. When it's finished, move to another secondary zone and gently stroke for another 20-30 seconds, as if calming your partner down. It should not be the most sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over - it will do the trick.
To excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you do not need to wait for hints or requests from him. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex do not object to giving the initiative in bed to their partner, relying on her playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male arousal.
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